How Sklaveni Works
Join the EU's most exclusive verified BDSM community in three simple steps.
4 min read · By Sklaveni Team · Updated June 2026
Get Started in Three Steps
1. Create Your Profile
Sign up with email or social login in under 2 minutes. Choose your role, add photos, and set your preferences. See our safety guide for best practices.
2. Verify Your Identity
Email: mandatory for all. Phone: optional for users, mandatory for Mistress/Master. Identity (photo ID): mandatory for Professionals, optional for premium. Learn more.
3. Connect & Explore
Browse IRL profiles and online Mistresses. Use Telegram, WhatsApp or email. All contacts are verified.
For All Users — Free
Every Sklaveni account gets these features at no cost. Slaves, Explorers, Mistresses and Masters — everyone starts here.
Create Your Profile
Choose your role, add up to 5 photos, write your bio, set your BDSM preferences, and add your contact links. Your profile is private by default — you control who sees it.
Browse & Discover
Explore all profiles on the platform. Filter by country, city, role, and availability. Find the right dynamic — whether IRL or Online.
Messages & Connections
Send and receive messages with verified members. Build connections, negotiate scenes, and grow your network in a safe environment.
Follow & Serve
Follow your favorite Mistresses. They will appear in your dashboard. Your Mistress sees all her followers — building a real D/s network.
Verification — 3 Levels
Email: mandatory for all. Phone: mandatory for Mistress/Master. Identity: mandatory for Professionals, available to any premium user. Learn more.
Premium — Available to Everyone
Any user can upgrade to premium — Slave, Explorer, Mistress, or Master. Unlocks identity verification, priority support, and extra features. Professionals are automatically Premium. See premium benefits.
Telegram Bot
Get notifications, quick profile access, and community updates via our Telegram bot. Stay connected wherever you are.
For Professionals — Paid Ad Publishing
Mistresses and Masters who want to publish their profile as an ad on IRL and Online listing pages, create dungeon postings, or promote events. Publishing ads is paid — all Professional accounts are automatically Premium. All user features are included.
Publish Your Profile Ad
Your profile appears as a professional listing on the In Real Life and Online pages. Detail your specialties, experience, rates, and availability. Upload up to 20 photos in your gallery. Your ad gets a gold-bordered card and the "PRO" badge — instantly recognizable by the community.
Spotlight Promotion
Put your ad at the top of listing pages with Spotlight. Spotlight ads appear first with enhanced visibility — increased visibility and contacts. Your ad stays pinned above all regular listings for maximum exposure.
Publish Dungeons
List your play space with photos, equipment, rules, rates, and detailed instructions. Appear in the public dungeon directory. Choose private listing to protect your location, or public for full visibility.
Create & Promote Events
Organize munches, workshop, and play parties. Set date, location, capacity, and dress code. Upload a flyer. Events can be free or paid. Promote your event with Spotlight to reach more attendees.
Sell on Market
List BDSM accessories, gear, and merchandise on our community Market. Reach an audience that is already looking for what you offer.
All User Features Included
Professional accounts include everything from the free tier: profile, messages, verification, Telegram bot, and community features. Publishing ads is the only paid addition.
Your Privacy & Security
GDPR Compliant
All data is stored on EU servers. You can export or delete your account at any time. We never share your data with third parties. Read our GDPR policy.
Not Indexed by Google
Your profile is not searchable on Google. Only verified community members can see your information. You control exactly what is visible.
Device Trust
Trust your devices for 30 days to skip OTP verification. Manage trusted devices from your settings panel. Revoke access anytime.
Visibility Control
Hide your profile instantly from the settings page. When hidden, you won't appear in IRL, Online, or search results. Reactivate anytime.
For Professionals — Mistresses & Masters
Professionals publish paid ads on IRL and Online listing pages. Spotlight promotion puts your ad at the top. Dungeons and Events are included in the professional plan.
Complete Verification — All 3 Levels
Professionals must complete: Email OTP + Phone SMS + Identity (photo ID). Earns the gold VERIFIED badge. Spotlight ads appear at the top of listings with gold border and "PRO" badge.
List Dungeons
Publish your play space with photos, equipment, rules, and rates. Create dungeon and appear in the dungeons directory. Private or public listing options.
Host Events
Organize munches, workshop, and play parties. Create event with date, location, dress code. Promote events with Spotlight.
Still Have Questions?
Visit our dedicated FAQ page for answers to common questions about accounts, verification, privacy, and more.
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